What to do?

Someone having trouble accepting your love? That's ok. You can't force somebody to love you or to accept your love. That is their choice. I know it hurts you a lot while that is happening - that's normal. It shows that you're alive and well and certainly not hard-hearted. And that doesn't make loving bad.

Don't go for the 'If you can't beat them, join them' attitude. That will just make you bitter and/or just as hard-hearted as that person is. There are enough lovely people in this world who are begging to have a John 13:34-35 relationship with you that makes bitterness worthless. God actually sends people who love your way. It's part of the reason that he calls himself the Good Shepherd and why he is known as the Great Shepherd.

What I am saying is that, you are NOT the problem. (If you are the problem then sort yourself out of course.) Somebody's failure to choose to love or accept good love is their own and God does not hold you responsible for it.

So really, regardless of what anybody else is doing you carry on loving. There are other useful points with regard to the pain. But I will get onto those in another entry.